So they are not babies anymore! HELP!

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So when these current “New Thompsons” arrived they were babies.

They now range from two at twenty, two at seventeen, two at fifteen and two at thirteen.

Not babies.

Twenty year old boys are still teenagers, RIGHT!

YUP!

So, eight teenage like minds in my house.  Not only that, but these are teenagers with learning plus issues.

Let me say here ADHD?  Least of my concerns.  We are all that, like all twelve kids and two parents.  Isn’t that normal?  Feels like that here.  I believe we are made in God’s hands and image.  He has to be ADHD.  I’m sure of that.  He is omnipresent and that takes a real ADHD person to do that.  Not being disrespectful, just pointing out that is is another facet of God that we do not understand.

Most important.

He understand us.  Why?  He created us.  He knows us. No mysteries here.  You and all of us here are perfect in his eyes.  Straight off the Potters Wheel.  Clay.  Moldable?  Is that a word?  It better be.  I get on the wheel everyday.  I need molding, refining, firing all of it.  So do my kids.  So do yours.

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I love this picture!!  It reminds me not only of the world which it is a picture of, but that it moves so fast, is ever changing, and is hard to look at and put every piece in it’s place.

But we, you and I, our kids, all of us, have a “piece” here.  We have a purpose, a calling, a place where we can thrive.  Where our passion can support our purpose and we can come alive.

What is life if you are not living it?  Just a word.  All children need to live a life, express their desires and potential.  All children need parents who will listen, who help them to fulfill their dreams that God put in their heart.  There are so many Lost Children who do not have those parents.

Are you one of those?  I was.  I am so glad I listened to the soft spoken voice in my heart and mind and followed it.  I would have missed all of this.  I would have arrived in Heaven and found boxes with unclaimed gifts of lives.  Little ones who God entrusted to me.

I am not here to guilt you.  I am just reminiscing and relishing the journey on which I have been on.  Not an easy one, but such a joyous one.  Without this call, I would not be who I am today.  I would not be thinking like I am, I would not be envisioning such a future ahead, and thankful, grateful for the life behind and continuing in the present.

Leaving you with a thought.  Understand YOUR purpose.  Then apply your passion.  Nothing has gone wrong, just find these two things.

Finally, it is never too late, you are never too old, you are never too young, you are just at the right time, the perfect time to find your PURPOSE!

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I recently attended an amazing conference in Savannah with some of the most wonderful women I have ever met.  All of us in business for ourselves, Lady Bosses if you will.  Although I am my own boss, I sometimes wonder what my coaching clients really want to hear and what client is in need of my knowledge to help them clarify their why, what and where.

I speak a lot about adoption and fostering, but have not thought there would be a huge demand for life coaching in this area.  Well, maybe I am wrong about that.

In the last hour of this wonderful weekend I started chatting to another of my fellow life coaches.  She asked a few questions and then suddenly I found she wanted, needed, information that I knew and could easily help her with.

Adoption!!!!!!

How Do I Start?

Where Do I Start?

Then the really big question, the one I always get…….

I’M AFRAID!!

Well I can tell you I was too!!  It seemed like a scary journey, and overwhelm set in more than once.  I can remember jumping from being excited, to feeling like this was too much uncertainty.  But, I got through all of it, and I learned so much about what I call “The Lost Children” on the way.

I can remember thinking I only want one or two and they would be this age, and preferably girls.

OMG!

REALLY!

Well that was the beginning of one hell of a ride!

One I never regret and one that made me a better person!

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Not everyone is called or feels the tug of adoption and less people are led to be a foster parent.  I was one of those.  I didn’t dream about this and when I did think I wanted to adopt, I never intended to be a foster parent.

That’s a whole other story!!!!

But, if you have thought about bringing a child into your home by adoption, or being a foster parent, I would love to talk to you.  I am going to do a series of videos that will be free to you, just add your email and I got you!!  I hope these will be informative.

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